My cousin found her mother for me. She is more computer savvy than me. She found them about two weeks ago and I have written to her mother. Today makes the second letter. I included my address, phone number and e-mail address but no answer. In the letter I sent her today, I told her that it was her choice now how her daughter finds out how about us. The last time I saw her was when she was 6 months old. They had changed the last names. Does she even know who her father is or the fact that he is dead? She doesn’t even know she has a half sister or a Grandmother who loves her. My first granddaughter is so mad that she took her half sister. It is not fair to her or her sister. It’s not fair because her whole life has been a lie. My first granddaughter says she could be such a positive influence on her. She said that her half sister was 13 now and that’s a very rough age and she could help her with it because she has been there. My son told me that she looks just like him. I really couldn’t see it at the time because she hadn’t really grown into her face at six months. She has his lips mouth and grin. How I would love to see that little face again. I’ll let you all know if I hear from her or her reaction when her half sister and Grandmother show up on her front doorstep.