I talked to someone yesterday that I hadn’t talk to in a while. My Granddaughter is at boarding school and this supposedly “friend” told me that my granddaughter was bad. I said, “No she is not.” This “friend” said oh yes she was. I’m not talking to her anymore.
She started making some bad decisions in her life. Who could blame her? She is only 16. In eight years time, she had to leave the only home she had ever know when her mother got engaged. There had been four generations living in that house. She was/is doted on by her grandparents. After she had to leave her only home, her mother got married and she got a stepfather. Which she really didn’t like. Then, her baby brother was born. Now she had to share her mother with two other people. Then her father, my son, committed suicide. It was horrible. Just horrible. When she got home from the funeral, her new stepfather asked her why she was crying, as she didn’t even know him that well. Which is true but he was her father. She said maybe she didn’t but she always knew that he was out there and now he’s not. He died 3 years ago. She and my son had started to communicate over facebook right before he died. I’m sure she had plenty of questions to ask him. I had hoped this help matters, but it didn’t. Her mother hated my son and didn’t talk anything but bad about him to my granddaughter. She had nowhere to turn. No one she could really talk to about what she was feeling. I felt like if she wanted to talk to me that would be great. But she didn’t want to hurt my feelings. Her mother couldn’t understand the love hate relationship she had with her father. So, she smoked a little pot and had sex. OMG!!!! How scandaless !! Like no other teenager did that. Yeah, right. The person who used to be a friend, had a 15 years old step-daughter that she was raising turn up pregnant at 15, dumped the baby on her and left for 8 years and had another child. That child she kept with her and even showed him great affection, in front of the child she dumped. Then she joined the Army were she got married and then had an adulterous affair with a senior officer. I’m so glad my friend did such a good job raising her.
How dare you say my granddaughter is a bad girl? How dare you. My granddaughter is in a very expensive boarding school, paid for by her new wealthy grandfather. He has her college already picked out and had paid for. Seems to me that they just got rid of her. Out of boarding school, straight into college. How my heart aches for you girl.