In yet another different subject. Personality. Are we born with it or is it shaped? When I think of all the families that think that material things take the take of actual one on one time, I just get depressed. I know a lot of mothers that overcompensate for having to leave the child in day care while they go out to work. If there child is screaming and throwing temper tantrums for something, we give it to them. Any thing the child wants the child gets. Working Mom’s and dad’s don’t give the quality times to teach morals and values to their children, so screaming works. I hate the fact that they have to work two jobs just to get by these days. I did it as a single mother on my own with no help. My son didn’t grow up with the values I had. How could I teach him that when most of his waking time was spent in daycare? Did I do that to him? The answer to that is yes. But, how else was I supposed to raise him? Stay with his abusive father just to keep a roof over our heads and food on the table? Obvious, I didn’t think so. But my son is dead, so what do I know?
I also know some girls that have the rich bitch attitude. Sorry to be so graphic but they blackmail their own parent to get what they want. And keep it that way. The best of everything if the parents have the money to do so. And if the parents do, it will never end. I may be rambling quite a bit, but that’s the way I roll. Things are confusing me now. I don’t know what to do about things.